Family Honor (a review and giveaway)

Family Honor (2008/2009) is many things: family drama, romance, comedy, thriller, Go-Stop manual. Its themes are myriad as well: relationships (parent-child; sibling; stalker-stalked; just name it), culture, tradition, revenge, recycling (not of clichés or plot devices but discarded bottles and sundry junk), redemption, coupling.

Of the last you need a notebook to keep tabs, because there are so many couples in the drama you keep wondering when it’s going to be great-grandpa’s turn; surely the writer’s not going to leave our beloved patriarch out of the dating game when everyone else is either hitched or ditched-and-hitched? That’s not fair, is it? After all, even the youngest in the family (Dong-dong; ten years old) has to ward off the advances of a girl who likes him so much she beats him black and blue.

Because it is so many things, and because the opening episode introduces nearly all its characters at once, you might feel like I did when I stood in the middle of New York City’s Time Square the first time, the din confounding me. After two episodes, I had no choice but to do what I normally avoid as a card-carrying spoilerphobe: I read the synopsis and character descriptions, impatiently looking for a family tree that would enlighten me on who’s related to who, and how old everyone is supposed to be. Because there are five generations (FIVE!) all living under the same roof.

At this juncture you might interrupt, you who love the drama and know all its details by heart, and protest: “Not five generations, c’mon. The great-great-grandfather passed away at the beginning of the drama, remember?” And now Thundie, who can’t count to save her life, and who has a love-hate relationship with the drama, nods (even as her fingers are frantically checking the math) and says, “I know, but everyone keeps talking to him even though he’s dead!”

I think it was Episode 40-something when it hit me. Now, I’ve watched many kdramas and have never noticed religion playing a central role in most of them (Shin Don and Love Letter excluded). Here in Family Honor, in the Ha household, a shrine room is the most sacred room in the sprawling old-world house. The family members take their traditional rites very seriously, as they do most things in life, and are often seen praying in the room. But it took more than 40 episodes before I realized that the bedrock of the family, the religion that defines every Ha, is ancestral worship. All along I merely thought the family old-fashioned and even a tad queer. How amiss of me!

In moments of sheer despair, the Ha family members (whether born a Ha, married to a Ha or working for a Ha) turn not to a church or temple for divine intervention. No, they pray to their ancestors. Not cries (silent or shrill) of “Dear God” reverberating through the house, but “Dear Departed Ancestor, help us!”

Fascinating, this invitation to explore a hitherto-unexplored realm, in this family headed by a man who is both a stickler (for ancient rules) and a liberationist. This man, Ha Man-gi (played by Shin Goo), expects a clear segregation of gender roles (men and women eat separately, for instance), but is happy to bend the rules if a this-rule-sucks (or similar) petition is convincingly tabled. Thus, the household is outwardly male-centric (first-born males rule!) but inwardly henpecked. If Milady says the guys must wash a year’s worth of bed linen by hand or no food gets served, the males know running to Haraboji will earn them a “Just do as She says” and little else.

Now, if you think Milady is Halmoni, you are both wrong and right. Wrong if you assume Halmoni = Ha Man-gi’s wife (great-grandma, may she rest in peace). Right if you are Dong-dong and knows the one who truly rules the roost is your new living and breathing grandma, the one just wedded into the family and who got pregnant… out of wedlock! At the age of 50!!

Oh my goodness, surely the honorable Ha family is above carnal shenanigans?

Nah, not a chance. Great-great-grandfather Ha (possibly 90 years old) is not many days reposing in his eternal abode when the family is visited by not one, not two but three bombshells. The Ha twins are divorcing (“We have to be peas in a pod to this extent?”), or, more correctly, being divorced by their long-suffering spouses. Third piece of earth-shaking news? The twins’ dad got his colleague in the family way (don’t you just adore this euphemism?) and wants to marry her.

Fortunately for Great-grandfather Ha Man-gi, his granddaughter will not be caught dead romping between the sheets with a non-spouse (as Only Son or Grandson No. 2 did, how shameful!). Nor will she ever be accused of being Unfit Spousal Material (like Grandson No. 1, who never even kissed his wife of 13 years, much less bedded her!). No, fortunately for our patriarch, Ha Dan-ah is pious and practically perfect.

Well, almost. I’m docking points for her hobby (she talks to dead people), profession (she spends hours cleaning already-clean artifacts), and singing (like a hyena that’s being strangled). She’s also, in my blighted opinion, insufferably bland (both in characterization and portrayal).

It’s not just that Dan-ah (Yoon Jung-hee) talks to her dead fiancé every night. Talking to dead people is one thing. But it’s another thing to be clinging stubbornly to an almost-marriage that’s more than ten years old. Her refusal to relinquish her grief is the reason why her family walks on egg shells around her even after all these years; her delicate disposition means she must be Handled with Care.

But try telling that to Lee Gang-suk (Park Shi-hoo). He and Dan-ah have a typical rough first meeting à la kdramas, she begging him to give up his seat on the plane so that she can rush back to Seoul from Jeju Island to attend her great-grandfather’s funeral rites, he not giving her the time of day. That of course leads to Hate at Second Sight on her part.

On his part, however, she becomes Object to be Pursued. The reason is because, as a history professor (who is still working on her dissertation entitled Best Ways to Clean Artifacts), she has in her possession the genealogy of a family with a yangban (nobility) past. Gang-suk’s father desperately wants to buy this genealogy.

You see, back in the twilight (and tumultuous) years of the Joseon dynasty, when ancient societal divides were rapidly crumbling, some rich common folks (non-nobility) sought forged genealogies as a fast route to improve their status. They either commissioned these counterfeit genealogies or tried to buy genuine ones from yangban who had fallen on hard times.

Gang-suk’s father, Lee Man-gap (Yeon Kyu-jin), is a nouveau riche. He is a man rolling in dough because of his money-lending business (as an extremely successful loan shark, but never say that to his face), possessing all the (gaudy) trappings of wealth but lacking a family genealogy that can buy him real respect in a society hung up on connections. Simply put, he’s a gate-crasher, a mongrel among pedigrees.

But looking at Gang-suk you could never imagine his father’s sorry past. The guy stands tall and proud; he was the second reason why, for forty-plus episodes, I watched the drama like one addicted. (The first reason, and it wasn’t addiction but sheer respect and love, was Shin Goo; I picked up this drama simply because he was on the DVD cover. PSH and YJH I had never seen before.)

My Gang-suk fixation was not because PSH’s a terrific actor (he’s all right most of the time and even brilliant occasionally, such occasions being terse, tense or nail-biting, but ask him to play silly or coy and the result is your hair standing on end), but because whenever Gang-suk smiles in the drama, rain clouds clear and butterflies come out to play. I was steamrolled by a smile, how easy.

As expected, Gang-suk falls in love with Dan-ah, in the process creating the strangest coupling I’ve seen in a kdrama. I’m not kidding when I tell you that I must have muttered these words at least a hundred times:

These two are so very mismatched.

He’s dashing and she’s dull. He doesn’t do much for a living (the guy rarely goes to the office); she’s married to her work. He pursues her; she bats him off, coldly. His family is flashy and fame-seeking, but hers is all about being humble and simple, eschewing pretense and showiness. He’s a joy to behold on his skis; she finds endless joy wiping her school’s collection of fossilized stones over and over again.

Can you imagine such a couple scarcely able to keep their hands off each other? Can you imagine hugging and kissing scenes so plentiful you stop counting altogether? In some dramas you wait and wait and get one lifeless kiss at the very end of the last episode, just as the credits are rolling. Sometimes you twiddle your thumbs forever and get nothing.

Well, thank your romantic stars for a drama that understands how highly we prize skinship. The pursuit may be somewhat arduous (if you ask Gang-suk, whose rival is someone he can’t even punch or curse, the latter being dead and buried), but once Dan-ah realizes what a good catch Gang-suk is, she can’t get enough of him. After all, who else can tolerate her singing? Why, the sweetie even performs with her!

Trouble is… once the two get hitched, that’s also when the tortured (and tingly) tensions between them dissipate and the relationship heads for Destination B (Boring). Our suave and attractive male protagonist suddenly behaves like a testosterone-driven teen, frequently moaning for more kissy-kissy time. His mate, however, is too busy learning the rudiments of Go-Stop, on account of her father-in-law being completely Go-Stop-crazy.

But like I wrote earlier, Family Honor isn’t just about the lead romance. If my memory serves me correctly (and I watched the drama months ago), at least six couples are formed in the course of 54 episodes. Gang-suk and Dan-ah’s relationship gets the most screen time, of course, but the rest are portrayed in sufficient depth and all hold my interest except for one.

Early in the drama, we are introduced to a guy who’s more lovelorn puppy than graduate student. Played by Lee Hyun-jin, Jung Hyun-kyu is a student in Dan-ah’s class who has openly declared his interest in her. His behavior is hard to stomach, simply because I can’t imagine how he, a much-younger student, is allowed to grab his female professor’s hand and treat her with that sort of rough possessiveness. Hyun-kyu is often sullen and grows more sullen when Gang-suk pops up and abruptly becomes Dan-ah’s boyfriend (a fake relationship that Hyun-kyu assumes is real). His constant moping soon wears my nerves thin. Dude, chill.

But more than Hyun-kyu’s borderline psychopathic behavior around Dan-ah, what I found particularly nerve-grating was Lee Hye-joo (Jun Hye-jin) and her obsessive infatuation with Hyun-kyu.

Hye-joo (she’s Gang-suk’s younger sister) is so taken with Hyun-kyu she tails him everywhere and hoards garbage that he throws out, such as empty drink bottles and cans (hence the recycling theme). She watches him constantly and gets herself hired in the same (empty) café where he works part-time. She jumps three feet into the air if he suddenly speaks to her and is giddy with happiness if he smiles at her. Nothing else seems to matter to Hye-joo except being Hyun-kyu’s shadow.

Two stalkers. (There’s one more, but I won’t spoil it for you. It’ll also get nastier, which may or may not involve our resident stalkers, but revenge is one of the drama’s many themes.)

Pretty soon I could not stand any of Hyun-kyu and Hye-joo’s singular or shared woe-is-me scenes anymore and just skipped them completely. But the ones where Hye-joo is with her family I watched (because of Park Shi-hoo, what else?) and am glad I did. How telling that in a drama I liked for the most part (and then rapidly disliked because of reasons I’ll explain afterwards), the most moving scene should involve Hye-joo, a character I found tedious and annoying. I cried only once in the drama and it was all because of her. (And Jun Hye-jin is spellbinding in that pivotal scene, even if the rest of the time she’s like a log.)

Now for the other relationships. Let’s start with Patriarch Ha’s only son, Ha Suk-ho (Suh In-suk). A widower, he is in love with his colleague, Lee Young-in (Nah Young-hee). How their relationship began we have no idea; all we know is she’s pregnant at the start of Family Honor and remains amazingly flat-bellied through most of the drama. That’s quite the feat when you consider everything that transpires in the interim, such as former-enemy-turned-son-in-law Gang-suk morphing from HOT to henpecked. (It bears repeating, simply because it pains me, that’s why!)

I like the pairing of Suk-ho and Young-in. I like that they aren’t staid and strait-laced, and that they are setting a very bad example for their children by begetting a kid in secrecy! Ah, just kidding. But seriously, I believe it’s their coupling that liberates Suk-ho’s three children (two divorced and one widowed, kind of) from their current emotional strictures, and gives them the courage to find happiness with new (and unlikely) partners.

Thus the older twin, Ha Soo-young (Jun No-min), who for some odd reason has been a closed shell incapable of open affection, now finds himself pursuing a relationship with a woman who fails every criteria dictated by the Ha ancestors. Oh Jin-ah (Shin Da-eun) is a cleaner. She is poor and orphaned. She is also much too young. A few more wrinkles and Soo-young can pass for her dad or uncle.

Oh, to hell with the old rules! He will woo her. He will wed her.

And so we have one of my favorite couples in Family Honor. Theirs isn’t a dramatic relationship (like Gang-suk and Dan-ah’s, and I’ll elaborate later). Their scenes together are mostly quiet, because they are two calm souls not given to much chatter. Shin Da-eun, who played a small role in I Am Happy (aka Happiness), gives one of the stand-out performances in the drama as a young woman recovering from a broken relationship, who then falls in love with a much-older man who shows her more kindness than she has ever received in her life. Marrying him brings a new set of pressures, because the wife of a first-born Ha son must shoulder many responsibilities. But Jin-ah finds her life’s calling in her new role. The glow on her face is unmistakable and moving (although not as apparent in the above image, oops!).

In contrast, Na Mal-soon (Maya) is a fish in an unfamiliar stream, her entrance into the Ha household marked by hiccups and hilarity. She and Ha Tae-young (Kim Sung-min) start off on the wrong footing, with searing ill impressions of each other. She thinks he’s a philanderer; he’s sure she’s a perverse policewoman whose sole delight in life is ticketing him. Naturally, and in typical kdrama fashion, the two bickerers fall madly in love.

Kim Sung-min, who was hysterical in Fantasy Couple as a henpecked husband and cat-hater, provides much of the drama’s laughs here as Tae-young, father of the family’s precious youngest first-born son, Dong-dong (Park Joon-mok). He is as loud as his twin brother is quiet; the guy is an open book with a temperament to match the boyish and boisterous Mal-soon. Given his, ahem, ‘experience’ (genuinely hurt and bewildered by his ex-wife’s refusal to forgive him for his adultery), it’s no wonder he’s an exemplary suitor this time, bearing food and tenderness when Mal-soon lands in hospital with a broken arm. The role is clearly a stroll in the park for Kim Sung-min.

Maya, on the other hand, is painful to watch. She overacts so much (every emotion magnified fivefold on her face, her eyes two slits from the sheer effort of emoting), I wanted to quit the drama several times in the early episodes. It doesn’t help that her scenes are repetitive (she’s in the hospital forever, even though her arm injury hasn’t affected her ability to move or swear one bit).

But the thing about Family Honor is that everyone eventually settles down (and I don’t mean this in the marital sense). Somewhere in the middle of the drama, Maya actually stops acting like everything is a big deal. You quit wanting to hurl a shoe at her good arm. (Park Shi-hoo settling into domesticated and ‘unhot’ territory is another issue.)

Like Maya’s acting, Gang-suk’s ‘backward transformation’ (I liked him so much more at the beginning and so much less at the end, ahhh!) and Gang-suk and Dan-ah’s coupling (they turn me on and off, simultaneously), Family Honor was a mixed bag for me.

As I mentioned earlier, I bought the drama for Shin Goo and loved him here. But compared to his awesome turns in Ruler of Your Own World and Thank You, his Ha Man-gi is a decidedly small and uneventful role. As head of the family, he spends much of his time sitting in his room; he is wise and kind; he and Dong-dong make an endearing pair; he harbors one birth secret too many.

And you thought a family with an aristocratic history could get away without skeletons in the closet? Ha!

Turns out there’s a reason why his sister, Soo-jung (Park Hyun-sook), is thirty years younger than him. Turns out Ha Man-gi himself isn’t what we think. Turns out…

Oh, enough. Birth secrets I can deal with, if they are dished out realistically. This is a family drama, so why watch if there’s no drama in the family, right? But, as though someone forgot momentarily to turn off the faucet, the rehashed plot devices start gushing forth in the last one-third of the drama, even as pacing slows. There’s amnesia. Traumatic childhoods. Revenge! Stabbings! (Note the plural form of the word. Note my screaming when the second one happened.) A court trial. Company mergers and in-fighting. Marathon Go-Stop sessions (and I toss this one in, not because it’s been done to death in other dramas but because it’s done to death here). Our male lead finding redemption for dastardly acts of old. (Wait, wait. Gang-suk has a past, too? No!)

But it all ends happily, and not a moment too soon (my patience by then thread-thin on account of the abovementioned). Two socially disparate families remain exactly as they were at the start of the drama, socially. Their houses remain the same. Gang-suk’s mother will never be classy, just as Mal-soon will never be lady-like. No amount of training can make Dan-ah a nightingale. Her siblings and their spouses love her dearly, but don’t ask them to sit and hear her sing.

Dan-ah’s off-key shrieking I could put up with, early in Family Honor. After all, it’s just another comical moment among many, in a drama I thought was utterly charming (after a confusing first episode). But then the dramatic twists start multiplying and abruptly a sweet family drama turns into a ‘thrilling’ whodunit. A third stalker appears and spills blood once too many times, the hospital trips multiply, the cries to Dear Departed Ancestors grow louder.

I said earlier that I have a love-hate relationship with the drama. It’s mostly love (in a mild form), although the final eight or ten episodes left me squirming like worms in a bucket. Besides Shin Goo, I loved Kim Young-ok as Yoon Sam-wol. What a different role from her sailor-mouthed granny in Assorted Gems! Here she’s a mild-tempered housekeeper with infrequent scenes; I wished she could have played a more dominant role as Shin Goo’s wife instead. Still, many of her scenes are touching, because Family Honor scores strongly in its depiction of familial ties. Sam-wol may not be kin in the strict sense of the word, but she’s like a grandma and mom to the Ha family. It’s to her that Dan-ah turns when the objections to her marriage become too strident.

Hold it one sec. Who’s objecting to Dan-ah and Gang-suk’s relationship? Surely not his family, so bent on climbing the social ladder of acceptance? But indeed his mom says, “Marry her over my dead body.” The reasons are pretty ridiculous, the mom’s hysteria even more so. In a drama of this length, there’s plenty of room and time to build The Great Wall of Obstacles Threatening Our Happiness. I breathe a huge sigh of relief when the wall eventually falls. I even grow to be quite fond of Gang-suk’s mom; beneath her needy and crass facade is a woman who has never recovered from a tragic loss.

What strikes me in the end, despite certain shenanigans and unsavory plot turns, is the warmth that this drama exudes. Everyone is flawed to some extent (even precocious Dong-dong, who can be downright rude to his dad), but within the family everyone sticks together. You don’t want to associate with Gang-suk’s family at first (you’ll make an exception for him, of course) because the parents are overbearing and so pretentious, and because their daughter is a nutcase in the making. Then you observe how they love Hye-joo; you learn the reasons for their social neediness; you feel their desperation when their past catches up with them. Soon you’ll come to love this family, as I did. Why, you may even love them more than the Ha family!

So… do I recommend Family Honor? Definitely, even if it’s not my all-time favorite family drama (More Beautiful Than a Flower is still the best; Assorted Gems is a gem for the most part as well).

But if you watched 2004’s Sweet 18 and enjoyed, like I did, the blend of new and old-world settings, the elaborate rituals (marriage, death, etc.), the struggles of straddling ancient clan conventions and the demands (and temptations) of 21st-century living, you will like Family Honor.

In fact, so sure was I (after watching just ten episodes or so) that people would love this drama, I went and bought a second set. Now you have a chance to win it.

If you write a paragraph (of any length) and include in it certain words (see below), if you can make me laugh out loud, if you can convince me that you are the rightful owner of this three-volume and nearly-four-inches-tall DVD set with excellent English subtitles, you stand a very good chance of being the winner.

You can write about anything, but your paragraph MUST include these words:

Family Honor; Shin Goo; blood; Park Shi-hoo; babies; Go-Stop

Closing date for our Family Honor drama giveaway is July 20, 2010. I can’t wait to read your submissions. Happy writing!

27 thoughts on “Family Honor (a review and giveaway)

  1. Thundie,
    I’ve been hearing that this drama is a gem, but always hesitant to look for it because of the number of the episodes. But your review makes me want to check it out…
    I won’t join the contest tough, but do you happen to know where I can download the RAW files+ english subs?
    thank you~~

  2. Hi djes

    You can download the Family Honor raws and subs if you have access to WITHS2’s VIA specials:

    But… if everyone downloads from there and no one wants to join the contest, I’ll be saddled with TWO sets of Family Honor! 😯 Don’t you want to own a beautiful digipak set of the drama? 😆

  3. Go-stop used to be a favorite pasttime of mine. That is, until I discovered Korean dramas. My mom and I absolutely love Korean dramas. They are the air we breathe and the blood running through our veins. According to my mom, she goes through “Korean drama withdrawal” whenever she finishes watching one drama and has to quickly buy/rent another one in order to ease the symptoms of her “syndrome.” As for me, you can bet the first words out of my babies’ mouths will not be “mama” or “dada,” but rather Shin Goo and Park Shi Hoo. So, on behalf of my Family Honor, I beg you to let me win the drama. My mother’s “well-being” depends on it.

  4. ah thank you Thundie! Yes I do have VIA ACCESS, I’m gonna check it out!
    I’d love to get the box set, but I think it’ll cost you too much to send it to my address! hahaa.
    ( and i’m not funny, my English is bad, so it’ll be a very slim chance for me to win anyway. 😛 )

  5. I am going to have to go to Korea for some “Park Shi Hoo” loving, but if I find that Kim So Yeon has currently ensnared him, I will gladly battle with her in a game of “Go-Stop” for him, staking my future “babies” and my “blood.” Only then would I be able to bring my K-drama addicted “family honor” since I do not have “Shin Goo” to help me.

  6. Hhmm, I’m playing this game because it’s fun, but my entry is for entertainment purposes only and should be disqualified. If Thundie picks me then it would elicit a round of conspiracy theories abounding all over TP, and we can’t have that, right? 😛

    Great review, btw. I still have zero desire to watch Family Honor, but have been eyeing Assorted Gems for some time now based on how much you LOVED it late last year. Btw, have you noticed that in the first picture, everyone on the left side is wearing colorful traditional garb, whereas the right side look like a bunch of morticians and dour flight attendants. What gives?

    Here goes:

    Most of the upholding of one’s “Family Honor” in a K-drama tend to appear only in sagueks, so I am curious how this retro-attitude gets played out in a modern drama. “Shin Goo”, grandpa-extraordinaire, looks like he’s about teach his beloved great-grandson how to play “Go-Stop” and became a Go-Stop tazza. I am clearly not the rightful owner of this box-set, because in my mind,”Park Shi-hoo” needs some “blood”, ASAP. H is so pale, how can he possibly have any “babies” if he looks like a vampire or a victim of severe blood loss. Since I find PSH so abominable snowman-like in complexation, the thought of watching him woo and romance a lady curdles my tummy, so I shall pass on Family Honor. Good luck to the eventual winner!

  7. Ooooh, I bought this drama too because of Shin Goo, but never started it, because of the lenghth although I did hear it was pretty good.
    I’m glad you did a review of it because now I have renewed interest in watching this.
    Thank you! I tend to zone out watching the long ones because there seem to be so much redundancy in the plot but with all these characters and your descriptions of them, this sounds like something I might be able to finish.

  8. In Family Honor, Park Shi-hoo is so madly in love with his girl that he even challenged grandpa Shin Goo in a baduk match just to let him marry his grand daughter immediately. It’s as if he’d give up all his blood just to be by her side. Little did he know that when he actually got to marry her, he wouldn’t even have a chance to be with his wife to make babies because she would be too busy fulfilling the greatest duty of a (good) daughter in law: playing Go-Stop with his family.

  9. Ok, I had been lurking around about this drama, no it`s not about park shi hoo but I like family drama. I had been looked for character descriptions everywhere, only to find a very little explanation about their character (I`d rather read the character`s description than watching it straight away).
    Next thing that I did, I skipped this drama,
    Now, my mood is lightened up because of this review (after watching a 50+ eps of loving you thousand time, and ended up screwing my paper because of the worst ending ever). I think I should grab this dvd.

  10. Oh yosira, FH is much better than Loving You a Thousand Times! I bet my copy of Winter Sonata that you’ll love FH’s ending (even though weirdo thundie thought it overly sweet and neat).

    Thanks for all the submissions. Keep them coming!

  11. yeah the ending was horrible (at least for me). I’m starting watching FH, hahahahaha.

    Now I know why people love park shi hoo. 🙂

  12. PSH is not a great actor but infinitely watchable through a combination of looks and charisma especially in the first half of FH. He totally went from HOT to NOT by the time he was tamed by Danah. I actually enjoyed FH despite probably a laundry list of problems, one of them being how flat & 1 dimensional they made Shin Goo. When it became all about the marriage problem, the multiple hospitalizations and the slap heard around the world, I was totally wearied out by the plot recycling.

    The positives I took away is that I wound up learning a lot about my own culture and the “whys” behind the rituals I grew up with as well as respecting and honoring my parents. I remember discussing with Samsooki the whole jokbo thing and how important they were to our dads–I would wager my dad would run out of a house on fire with his jokbos rather than my mom. The drama has done more for my change in attitude and patience with my parents & family than the endless lectures from my dad about filial piety.

  13. PSH is so incredibly GORGEOUS in that screencap of just him…I melt every time I see his smile. I fell in love with him after Prosecutor Princess, and hoping he does something amazing soon. Where can I get me one of them for my very own? It would be amazing to see that smile every morning.

  14. Park Shi Hoo was walking down by the river when he saw the most beautiful girl ever. so he went up to talk to her. the only thing she talk about was how much she love Go-Stop. she would do anything for Go-Stop which got her i a lot of trouble. Park Shi Hoo was in love with her even if she would be more in love with Go-Stop more then him. so he took her to a shop to play Go-Stop and that when he ask her to be his girlfriend. she started hiting him think he was a pervert. he got hit so hard that he was send to hospital. his dad Shin Goo found out and went to the hospital as fast as he can find out that his son loss so much blood that he need a Blood transfusion. Shin Goo didn’t have the same blood and was Panicing. when girl said she was sorry and want to give her some of her blood. Shin Goo didn’t want her blood but he had to her his son. 5 day later he was the same again. the girl wanted to give him a chance so she go out with him . Shin Goo hate the girl but Park Shi Hoo loved her so he said fine. they got married and had babies the grl was not in love with Go-Stop no more but a asian drama called Family Honor.

  15. I’m so glad I found this contest in time!
    And would like to express myself in rhyme 🙂
    Hope that it doesn’t break the rule
    Because this drama, “Family Honor”, sounds oh so cool!
    Endearing Haraboji Shin Goo is the man to go to for chocopie
    In “Thank You” he got me addicted to this yummy treat, and that’s no lie.
    Adorable Park Shi-hoo took me breath away in “Prosecutor Princess”
    And distracted me in my time of great distress
    You see, I was in the middle of studying for my nursing license test
    I was tired of reading about how to give blood
    Or how to respond to an emergency flood
    I didn’t care much to learn about rabies
    But I loved learning about caring for babies
    So I took study breaks to watch an episode (or two) to de-stress
    It relaxed me so that I could do my very very best
    Now that it’s over and done
    It’s time to have some fun!
    Maybe I’ll finally learn how to play Go-Stop
    Or listen to more awesome kpop
    What I really want is something more
    A great heartwarming drama to make my heart soar!
    This show seems to have it all,
    I’d rather be marathon-ing this than going to the mall 🙂

  16. Imagine my relief that Prosecutor Princess ended three days before the start of Bar Prep. I enjoyed watching it, and a lot of that had to do with Park Shi-hoo’s charisma as an attorney (I suspended my disbelief about the way attorneys practice by saying every other scene “maybe just maybe this is the way that it works in Korea”). Having enjoyed PP, I looked up other shows that the stars had been in. I came across Family Honor, and my first thought was what was with the grandfather flying across the poster, it looks sort of cheesy. And 54 episodes that seems like too many episodes to watch a show with a cheesy poster. But having only three days of freedom and never believing that I would make it past the first episode, I started watching. The grandfather flying across the poster, played by Shin Goo, was anything but cheesy. The head of the Ha family had to have nerves of steel and a sense of humor to deal with the shenanigans of his family in just the first episode, we have adulterers, an alcoholic, and a Dan Ah without any expression, oh my. I decided to give the next episode a try, and the morning of my graduation and the day before Bar Prep I woke up at sunrise because I had to see what was going to happen next. I realized I had a problem.

    I set a ration for myself. I was only allowed to watch a half hour a day, but somehow that morphed into watching when I was having meals or between tasks because hey, wasn’t I allowed a ten minute break. The last fifteen episodes definitely lost some of the charm of the beginning (Who doesn’t love to see a man redeemed by the love of a good woman, at least in theory, if not in practice because Park Shi-hoo definitely started to come across as the whipped child groom of Dan Ah then the charismatic leading man of the earlier episodes). The episodes began to revolve around main characters losing blood, main characters play Go-Stop, main characters have babies. Rinse and repeat. But I kept watching until I found myself the day before this post (because second only to watching k-dramas is reading about them) having finished just before 11 pm, and thinking oh my God I watched 54 hours in less than a month. If I don’t pass the Bar as a result my family and friends are going to kill me. So please oh please gift me the DVD set of Family Honor, so I can have tangible proof of why I wasn’t studying when I was holed up in my room. Maybe Park Shi-hoo’s charisma will be enough to prevent me from being killed.

  17. I read your review and it inspired me to actually watch it! Although, it’s kinda daunting watching all 54 episodes but I managed to finish it in a week’s time. Whew!

    Here’s my take on it. Hope you’ll enjoy reading it.

    5 babies, 4 weddings, 3 siblings, 2 operations and 1 funeral — that’s Family Honor! Yeah, it’s all about blood being thicker than water but hey love sure is thicker than anything! Just ask Shin Goo or Park Shi Hoo about it before you begin playing Go-Stop. Family
    Honor just leveled up the word dysfunctional to the max! With twins so oppositely different in personalities yet so similar in fate and love, to the sister that could rival a saint, to the father who’s a late bloomer in love, to the cool downright sort of adorably
    domineering stepmom, to the somewhat prodigal yet cool grand aunt and of course, our ever so calm and collected haraboji Shin Goo. Oh! and let’s not forget the beguiling, cold and calculating Park Shi Hoo who’s taken some pointers on stalking from her timid psychotic sister in Family Honor. No wonder he’s already perfected the craft of sneaking up to Hye Ri in Prosecutor Princess. Beyond any doubt, this drama is one amusing bumpy ride that tells us “The family that plays Go-Stop together stays together.” Nah, just kidding!

  18. I admit it–I don’t know what a Shin Goo or a Park Shi-hoo are, any more than I know the rules of Go-Stop. (I assume there are pretty people in this drama, and that’s good enough for me). I haven’t seen “Family Honor” yet and have instead been watching the current tear-jerkers about the Korean War or the 1970s. This fulfills my need for tragic melodrama but I’m getting a bit tired of all the close-up drooly crying and projectile blood. I am doing graduate research on representations of family in TV- no joke. So I NEED this drama, and not only for academic purposes, but also because it’s time to finally learn how to play Go-Stop. If I am successful I will teach the game to my future babies, as “family honor” is not enough in today’s world. Babies need exotic, marketable skills, and I am sure the bright colors will also be good for brain development.

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  21. Hi! I just came across this and am dying to find a boxset with quality english subs…. do you have anymore late…am a year late! *cries* if you do, how much will you sell it for me??? please reply back at my email incase I don’t check this post… or how long for your reply. thanks a bunch!
    love your blog..wished there were more review… love the WBDS reviews wished you would recap the princess man with Park shi hoo too!

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  24. While I don’t agree with you on the leading couple. I didn’t find her charaacter or performance bland . As well as that, her singing was supposed to be bad.
    You might as well find fault in the wicked witch of the west for being wicked.
    But on the performances of Shin Da Eun and Jun Noh Min, I couldn’t agree more. What wonderful performances these two gave. If I could pay somebody just to edit all the scenes, they are in together, i would

    family’s honour
    For the first 40 0r so episodes of this, I would comsider this in the main to be a rather dark drama. I thought of it as a drama about lonliness, pain, trying to connect, or being afraid to connect with other people.
    The leading couple.
    I look on Yoon Jung Hee’s character as someone who is afraid to move on, and really using the idea of her loyalty to her first husband as excuse not to.
    Lee Hyun Jin’s character is someone who doesn’t relate really to people except on a superficial level.
    How he wakes her from the dead, and she makes him a better person makes an intersting story. The teasing scenes between the two were my favourite
    between these two.
    Acting wise. Performances were fine, but didn’t give me the urge to seek out
    other stuff they were in.
    Couple 2
    Shin Da Eun and Jun Noh Min
    This for me was the best story of the lot, and something special. This may-december romance I found to be very poignant. He is afraid of connection , and she is longing for some. The acting by these two is excellent
    I want to see other stuff they are in
    couple 3
    Maya and Kim Sung Min.
    This for me was the least interesting of the relationships. It was nice though that the girl who was never in a relationship was also the most outgoing.
    His performance was on the same level as the first couple’s, but hers is probably among the weaker perormance’s along with Lee Jong Bak and Lee Soo Min. Still, this was the only story, where I wondered for brief moments if they might break up.
    couple 4
    Jun Hye Jin and Lee Hyun Jin
    He is okay, but she is better. and I loved it when she smiled.
    couple 5.
    Suh In Suk and Na Young Hee
    2 good solid performances here.

    The rest of the cast are fine, with the exception of Shin Goo, who is terrific.

    Other comments.
    I could have done without the stabbing.
    I would have liked to have seen more scenes between the three younger wife’s.
    I also liked the relationshp, between grandpa, and grandson, and between
    Maya, and Shin Da Eun.

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